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Going to Nursery
Nursery for the first time is a whole new situation, school, teachers, rules, clothes, bus, other children, classroom, schedule, etc. This is plenty to handle and a significant point in the child's development. Most children at this age experience stress being separated from their primary caregiver and will worry about their return.
Tears, temper tantrums are the common vent for this stress, sometimes lasting a few
days or even weeks. Do not worry; it is very common and even healthy! It is a normal
part of growing up! Those not as severe or long lasting are usually children with
older siblings in the school or experiences in daycares or playgroups. Many children
may not exhibit signs right away, but later, and sometimes even weeks after the thrill
of the new experience is over. Each child experiences it in a different way and therefore
they all need plenty of love, encouragement and reassurance.
Parents: Here is how you can help:
- Don't make too much fuss or build up your child's hopes too high, but do encourage your child to look forward to the event of their first day.
- Please be confident and calm, as your attitude and anxiety whether it be verbally
or non-
verbally will be picked up by the child.
- Too many good-
byes" - Please say a quick good-bye once (as in any normal situation), reassure the child that you will be back after lunch or that you will see them later and leave quickly. Saying good-bye over and over and staying on when the child cries only reinforces your insecurities and anxiety and the child will react more on your fears.
- Please never sneak away. Provide a trusting and consistent drop off routine. Also
be consistent at pick-
up times your child will be counting on you.
Though this is a milestone for both the child and sometimes even the parent, allow them their independence from you to school -For example - Let the older child walk in and out of Nursery and encourage them to carry their own book and bag.
Sometimes in the early days allow your child to bring in a toy or token item from home that they are comfortable with and can look to for security for a short period of time and this security item can be popped into their bag by a member of staff later. A good idea may be a small family photo that can be stored in their front shirt or dress pocket, or in their nursery bag.
SEPARATION ANXIETY
